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Discretion
Protecting yourself form "negative vibes".



  Examples of "negative vibes":

"Negative vibes" hidden in words:
Why don't you get yourself a real job?
We all know artists only become famous once they're dead!
Poor you...
Your no good.
You're a worthless piece of !@#$%
Why do you...
Why did you...
Why don't you...
Is that all you've managed to do so far?
You should...
You must...

Sometimes the negative vibes come from the body language of the person
, the way the person looks at you when you talk about your project.

You just get the sense that they don't believe in you



Negative vibes can also emanate from the self.
Thoughts such as "I'll never make it"
or misreading lack of encouragement into what others do or say.



   

"(...)If you continually expect an individual to behave in a particular manner, then you are sending him telepathic suggestions that he will do so. Each individual reacts to suggestion according to specific conditions existing at the time, such an individual will to some extent or another act according to the mass suggestion he receives.

These mass suggestions include not only those given by others, both verbally and telepathically, but also those he has given himself, both in the waking state and dream state . if an individual in in a state of despondency, this is because he has already become prey to negative suggestions of his own and others. Now if you see him and think that he looks miserable (...) or that he is an incurable drunk, then these suggestions are picked up by him subconsciously, though you have not spoken a word. And in his already weakened condition they will be acted upon

if on the other hand,(...) you stop yourself and say gently to yourself, 'he will begin to feel better now, or his drinking is temporary, there is indeed hope here' then you have given him aid, for the suggestion will at least represent some small telepathic ammunition to help fight off the war of despondency."

- Jane roberts (seth)

 

 


How to send positive vibes to others

If you believe in what the other person is doing.
- Express your admiration, and encouragement,
- Be useful to the person when ever possible


If you don't believe:

- Reduce physical and visual contact with the person.

Say to yourself:
- x is my friend and I want him to be happy
- I want him to fulfill his potential as a human being. I let life guide him to happiness.
 

To send positive vibes to oneself in while awake:

Say the following to yourself and reinforce the thought with concrete daily actions.
-" I can do this"
- "the universe has given me these skills.i want to use them to develop my full potential and make the world a better place."

Bombard your mind with positive proverbs and thoughts even if you don t completely believe in them. Use these to motivate and discipline yourself to continue working on your projects

- Check out Raymond hull's 52 citations (How to get what you want)

- Keep an eye on what you eat

- Find time to do physical exercise



   

Sending "positive vibes" to oneself during sleep

I will use this sleep time to work on overcoming the problem that keep me from reaching my goal.

I will wake up refreshed and in a positive mood
I will wake up with all the energy I need to get my project done

I will use my sleep to cultivate my disciple

I will use my sleep to cultivate positive feeling and thoughts about myself

I will use my sleep to work on ______




 

If you find yourself feeling very discouraged or depressed,
Raymond Hull (how to get what you want) suggests to be more discrete about your dream project. Revealing your intentions might attract the negative vibes of those who enjoy or find reassurance in seeing you fail.

Unfortunately, many people have a negative character, a destructive temperament. They take pleasure in criticizing you and discouraging you as soon as they know that you have taken you first steps towards positive action.

Sometimes your friends- even your best friends- with the best intentions in mind, try to distract you from what you have planed for yourself. If you want to lose weight, for example, they will say that its not necessary that they like you just the way you are, etc.
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Some people will seem courteous and friendly. They don't discourage you when you're there. But they don't hesitate to criticize you and put you down, when you're not arround."There's no chance she'll succeed!" He's full of good intentions but the poor guy is to old to change now!"

When they don't destroy you verbally these people think about your projects and remain convinced that you will fail. They keep this idea in mind and stay on the lookout for any sing that will confirm their predictions (telepathic action).

Avoid the negative remarks of others. Give yourself more creative power. Stay discrete.

Even after having attained a certain amount of success, keep it to yourself. If you openly rejoice, you could be seen as being pretentious and arrogant. They will say: "maybe all is well now, but you will slip again, eventually" Things 'll get worse tomorrow."


Wait till others notice your success by themselves.

"In being discrete, you will reach your goals.
In being discrete, you will avoid criticism and negative comments
You will break free from the intentions of those "who only want the best for you" You will not fall prey to the negative thoughts of others.
You keep your creative powers intact.
Lets others discover your success.
Don't give any detail on the way you have succeeded. But, be ready to help those who come to you for guidance so that they too can succeed."
- Raymond Hull



Recommended readings:


Raymond Hull
How to get wht you want

Jane Roberts
Seth speaks