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What's my style

What do I love to do?
How do I do the things I love?
Identifiying your priorities


    " You have the right and the power to reshape your world to fit you "
- Barbara Sher



Instructions:
Exercise 2
: Name 20 things you like to do (you can add other categories to the list).
Once you have completed the chart see what patterns you can find.

Answer the questions as honestly as you can. Your answers might change as time goes by. I have included my personal answers to give you an idea of what the answers might look like.

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Exercise 2: To find my style,
list 20 things I would like to do


The thing: Last done Money
or free
Alone or with
people
Planned/
spontaneous
Job related Physical risk Fast or
slow paced
mind body
spiritual
Can I turn this into a source of income?

( check out business plan)
Practice
drawing
1 month ago money alone and with people planned and spontaneous No No Slow mind
spiritual
yes
Help children with homework yesterday money
with
people
planned No No fast or
slow paced
mind
yes
Practice
painting:
1 month ago money alone and with people planned and spontaneous No No Slow mind
spiritual
yes
Work on comic last week money
alone planned
no no Slow mind
spiritual
yes
Conferences+
documentaries
6 months ago money
alone planned no no Slow mind
no
Sculpture
last week money alone spontaneous No Yes Slow mind
spiritual
yes
Meditate yesterday free alone
spontaneous
no no
slow paced
mind,
spiritual
yes
Music 3 months ago free alone spontaneous No No slow and fast mind
spiritual
yes
Political consumerism 4 months ago money alone or
people
spontaneous No No slow and fast mind
spiritual
no
Gardening last summer free alone or people planned No No slow mind body
spiritual
yes
Foraging,
Survival skills
in the summer
free
alone or
people
planned No No fast or
slow paced
mind body
spiritual
yes
Aikido last summer money people planned No Yes fast mind body
spiritual
yes
Tai-chi today free alone spontaneous No No Slow mind body
spiritual
yes
Vegetarian food today money alone spontaneous No No Slow mind body
spiritual
no
Read today free alone spontaneous No No Slow mind
spiritual
no
Practice Japanese
manga+anime
last week free alone spontaneous No No Slow mind no
Practice German last week free alone spontaneous No No Slow mind yes
Watch a good movie today money alone spontaneous No No Slow mind no
Play with kids last week free with people planned No No fast and slow mind body
spiritual
yes
Talk to teenagers last week free with people planned No No fast and Slow mind body
spiritual
yes

 



I answering these questions, you might come to realize that you must reorganize your living space so you can work more effectively on your dream.

Here are pointers that have helped me organize my own space:

Look at the places where you like to work.
What's working?
What's not working?
What's essential?
What advantage do you get through organizing?
What's causing clutter?


1 Sort into categories
2 Purge. Get rid of what you don't need anymore
3 Assign a home place
4 Containerize
5 Equalize, maintain the organization system



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Barbara Sher's insightful questions:

What do you notice?:
F.Q.: I like to do things alone, not much body stuff, I like slow paced stuff and not putting myself in physical danger. I like to do things with my mind. And cultivate a spiritual dimension to what I'm doing (this spiritual side is private and personal. Not to be confused with organized religion).
NONE OF THE THINGS I LIKE TO DO ARE JOB RELATED!!!
With this information, play at reshaping your environment to fit your needs.

Describe an Imaginary environment perfectly tailored to your needs:
F.Q.: 1 room for sleeping and relaxation. 1 room for drawing, computer and other creative work. A 3rd room for tai-chi/aikido. a greenhouse for foraging and gardening, an electric vehicle.
Twice a week, I meet children and teenagers that are creative and want to make the world a better place. We talk, eat, exchange tricks and encourage one another to keep on going. I would like to have a private aikido instructor.
At the end of the day, I take time to meditate.


Describe your ideal day:

Wake up late
Read
Tai-Chi, do some gardening
Eat vegetarian
Work 3 hours on comic
1 hour paint/draw
Sculpture customize
Meet kids/teenagers
Play music when stuff pops into my head
go to bed late at night



What elements of your ideal day are absolutely indispensable?


Tai-Chi,
Eat vegetarian
Work on comic
Paint/draw
Sculpture
Practice French,English,German
Play music


What elements are optional but desirable:


Meet kids/teenagers,help kids with home work, gardening
Read
aikido



Frills?:
Practice Japanese, watch movies, play with kids.Political consumerism,
Survival skills
, Documentaries, conferences

What happens when you walk through an adjusted fantasy day with only the indispensable elements in it?
F.Q.: I realize that there is no money coming in. This gives me the impression that my skills and interests have no economic value in our society. And this in turn increases my shame. That's why I added a "can this be turned into a source of income" column.

What elements do you already have?
F.Q.: Everything is there. I don't have as much space as I need. But I can work with the space I have.

What important things are absent from your life right now?
F.Q.: Everything is there, except the money streams. I have to turn some of my interests into revenue streams.

What stands between you and your adjusted ideal day?
F.Q.: My ideal day doesn't generate any income. I would need a job with an understanding employer. Or find ways of generating income from what I like to do...
I tried finding an understanding employer and have not found any. In the last 3 years I tried generating income from the things I like to do. But not enough money is coming in. I try not to let myself be discouraged by this. A little bit of money coming in is better than no money at all
.
I have finally put my hands on a business plan with which I can better generate income from what I like to do.

It's time to clarify my goal...

 


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